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Our adoption started out with our sending pictures and updates a few times a year. We soon decided that even though our bmother does not have the lifestyle we approve of it would be best if we opened our adoption up just a little. We visit once a year with "E" and her family at a local resturant for two or three hours and then we are done. We feel like it will be best in the long run if we keep contact open and do it from the beginning. If we feel like things change enough in "E's" life we may open the door to more visits but right now once a year works for all of us. Remember it may be work on your part but in the long run, what would the child have wanted?
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