[janf]

I do not know where to begin, but let me say this. I applaude each and everyone that is a foster parent or adoptive parent, my heart goes out to you all. You must all have great patience and loving understanding to bring a child into your home..

I am a bit confused with my situation: I am a bmom, son was adopted at 11m. aparents lost custody in 99 and son is in foster care. I have been in contact with the SW but she always says the best interest of the child. She will not tell him that his brother is looking for him nothing. She also stated that the foster parents agree that this is not the time to tell him. Ok so when is the best time to tell him? I understand he had alot on his plate, i just want him to know we are still here and always have been. It has been 9 years since i last talk to him.

I think he will be angry with the FosterParents and SW if he knew we are looking for him.. He is 18 now..

Any feed back would be great
thanks
jan