[Hoov]

Oh man, I can relate to you too. I had many friends, co-workers, sister and other relatives that were having children (it was easy for them all too I might add) and here we sat. We have no idea why we are not able to have children, there is no medical reason. I looked at adoption early in our marriage when we didn't conceive, but decided to wait it out. 13 years later we looked at the adoption process again and we now have a beautiful son that we adopted and we couldn't be happier. I believe it was meant to be because he fits perfectly in our family and we are at a point in our lives that we were and are totally ready for him. The adoption process is not easy at all. It was a lot more difficult than I ever could have imagined. I am not a very patient person and called our agency every week for updates. Do not give up, hang in there and know that the end result is absolutely beautiful and so so worth everything that you have gone through. It's been said before and I will repeat it - it will happen and hopefully very soon.