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I can really relate. I had a lot of friends get pregnant when we were first working on our adoption. I had a really hard time talking to them. Not that I wasn't happy for them, it was just so painful. Adoption is not for wimps. I adopted my son three years ago. He is the greatest, and fortunatly, once the adoption got rolling it went really fast. We decided to adopt a baby sister and this time is nothing like the first. We have had delay after delay. We finally got a referral, then a court date, and then 2 days before travel it was cancelled. We have no idea when we will travel. I think this process can really push you to the brink. Especially for a control freak like me - when you realize you have NO control at all. The thing that has saved my sanity is places like this - knowing other people are in the process with me and that people have gone through this and worse and still gotten their child. Hang in there!
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