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Wow..this really is a sticky situation. The reason I say that is......you laready have found her and have actually seen her. Its not like you are asking general questions for someone you have not found. I think that changes the whole thing. Personaaly, I am not sure I would feel comfortable knowing someone was "watching" me that had such a huge place in my life. I know you are not "watching" as in spying, I know it was accidental but still....
You have gotten alot of honest answers and in terms of myself yes, I was very curious, no 18 would have been to young..out of the blue...
But we are all different...and you have seen her!!
I am sorry if I have confused you even more...does any other adoptee get what I am saying..doesn't it seem strange thatbirthmother may have know me and seen me when I had no idea?.Kinda bothers me.....
Thats why I am wondering if a thoughtful letter might be approriate? Just to keep things in the open?
My thought processes may be all wrong here...any ideas?
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