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Just keep in mind, also, that the loss is not only yours, but also your other child's and the child that you are placing.
I hope you consider that you will have to explain the absence to both children and the God's Will theory may just not be enough.
Sure your child doesnt have a say about his or her sister or brother.. but will be losing his or her sibling just the same.... as well as the adoptee losing his or her family under the notion of God's Will and not necessity... Please be sure to consider how this explaination will help either or both to deal with this.. and if it doesnt help them...what approach you might use as follow-up justification.
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