Things are good here. Sometimes it surprises me how much new stuff (memories, fears, and anxieties) is still coming up, a year and half later. I do somethimes get frustrated that it feels like my child will never be fully potty trained

or will never voluntarily eat a fruit or vegetable

. But things are going pretty well. It is still tough on my older one when M's antagonistic behaviors escalate, so I have to make sure C gets time alone with her friends and alone with me. People tell me all the time how much of a change they see in M and how she has just blossomed. She is really trying to make sense of her past lately, and we are working on her life book.
Have a great day!