[mom2GRLC]

also .....we live far away from our family....so we actually have much more direct contact with our kids birthfamilies as well.

Sometimes I feel guilty for focusing so much on birthfamilies and not enough on the relationship my kids should be building with our extended family.

I just feel we need more of a balance in our lives. Sending the same thing to everyone (in my mind) seemed to help do that.

As it stands right now we had already decided to just send birthfamily stuff once a year to each of our kids birthfamilies on their birthday. We of course will still do this....but in between time I thought this could be a good way to keep EVERYONE involved and updated on our family as a whole.