I read in the birthparents and aparents forums but I have never posted 'cos I didn't feel it was my place and all. I am just an adoptee (half adoptee at that)
Speaking as a adult "gift" given to an infertile couple by a surrogacy mother who planned to give me as a gift before I was even conceived - I AM NOT TUPPERWARE! I am a human being. Being called a gift is a huge insult to me.
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Be sure to explore the possibility that perhaps God lovingly entrusted you with his child because he has faith in your abilities... and not because he was using you as a vessel to answer someone else's prayers out there....
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Thank you 'cos that was the most sensible thing I have ever read !!