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Hi thank you for your reply. I searched for bmom for many years(10) and the adoption agency found her. It took her 6 months from the initial letter I wrote her to call me. It was lies from day one. My bsister is bipolar and has schizophrenia so she doesn't remember anything. She is torn in the middle of us. I don't like her to be in the middle she has enough problems. Bmother has been very mean to her saying she should have been the one adopted out and if she talks to me that she won't help her. The aunts won't tell me anything. I have asked but they say it is for her (bmom) to tell me. Bmom is married to a wonderful man who seems to hide from her. I cannot tell you how long they have been married except my sister and I sent away for her long form of her bcertificate and he is named as her father and she is a year and a half older than I am and it says that they were married. This man had no idea that I existed and I am 32 years old and my bsister is 34. So something happened along they way and my adoption papers say that my bparents were married and my bfather is english and this man is french so who knows. I have talked to him and he reallyknew nothing about me so I guess they split up sometime. It is all a bunch of lies and I have no way of finding out anything. It just kills me that she doesn't care about any of us and things have to be her way. Out of sight out of mind I suppose.
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