Its been over a year now and the whole meeting was terrible. I met bmom in March of 2005 and have found out that mostly everything she has told me were lies. From the moment we first talked on the phone she told me all about my bsister who turns out to be my half sister, when bmom was married(totally different date)
How she wanted me so bad(but left me in a hospital and never looked back) and lies from there on in. I didn'ttalk to her for a few months and tried again. I had waited 31 years for this so I wanted to see her again. Went to her house and then the same night she called me up screaming that she will never tell me who my bfather is and that she had closed all of my files and not to go behind her back looking because I will never find out. I was in shock and very angry. What kind of woman is this?? Haven't heard from her since and she goes on with life like I never existed just like before.It just kills me that I found her and she still doesn't care. She ignored us at Christmas, Easter and every holiday. I still sent presents for Christmas, Easter , her birthday etc...
I am so lost. I talk to my bsister occasionally but if she tells bmom , bmom freaks out and tells her that she won't have anything to do with her either if she talks to me!! Its like I am the evil spawn or something. I live a goodlife, have a good family but she still doesn't want me. After all this she calls my 14 year old son and tells himt hat Gramdma is here and to call her if he needs anything!! He has only met this woman about 4 times and was in shock, She is a stranger to him.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to be around a liar but I do want to know about my family.
Any advice please help.
