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Lol Leigh, thanks!!!! We certainly have alot in common! My "best friend" and I kinda have been through the same thing. We tried and tried and quit infertility and moved to adoption and she got pg. Well, we had a failed placement before she was due (it was realy fast) then were matched again and her DD and my son are one week apart in age. She felt like I somehow "stole her thunder" when I saw it as an amazing thing that we could go through all that and still have our babies together. Anyway, fast forward to now, she is divorced, with a toddler, and we are adopting again. I stay home and she works full time. She is a huge downer and very jealous and it hurts my feelings, too. She keeps bringing up all this negativity about how hard it'll be with 2 kids, I'll never go out, ugh. It is draining. So you have my complete sympathy. I don't know how to handle her....what are you doing?? Besides her not talking to you? I want to confront it, but I am not that way, so I am like stuck, kwim??
--Renee
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