You are so correct. I am worried that the ending may not turn out as happy as your friend's. My husband will not consider just taking the child without adoption. I would, but since he's seen how other members of his family yo-yoed some of his cousins around, he's not willing to do it unless there are no strings attached. I know I've jumped into this too fast, considering we've not talked the parents. It could go either way right now. I really feel like she'll be relieved of the responsiblity, but I could be wrong.
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Originally Posted by happygmom
So, in my opinion, offering respite care is a loving thing to do as long as it is unconditional. Perhaps the mother will come around and straighten up her life. Maybe she will see that her child needs the stable environment that you can offer. That said, it is an emotionally risky situation for you and, as I am sure you are VERY aware, the ending may not be as happy as my friend's.
Happy G'Ma
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