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Yes, I am concerned about your point, but I feel like we're too far in this now to turn around. If she says NO, I guess we will just worry about that then.
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What do you mean by "too far"? I thought that this is just you and your hubby considering and nothing has been put into motion or even presented to the mom....
Has anyone offered to give her a place to stay that isnt a trailor with 10 people...etc? Or is the only help being offered is the offer to take her child from her?
I suppose I think that not only does the mom have a say (of course) but she also doesnt have to answer to you... You say in your opinion that her welfare check is all that would keep her there... but you cant possibly know that...
I personally dont think that you should be offering to adopt anyone -- but perhaps offer to help the mom get into a better situation...