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Ja,
Jenna is not saying force it.
She is saying offer it...when she said that, you said you would offer if she desired. All Jenna is saying at this point is don't wait for her to 'desire' it - offer it right out of the box, up front and at the start...if she doesn't want it or refuses it, you've done all you can do.
Make more sense?
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Brandy
Adopted Adult, Mom & Wife
Mothering From The Sidelines of Open Adoption
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