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AMom, that's interesting.
The adoption for both my sons is closed and I am very grateful for that, due to the background of the birth-parents. I would not feel safe if they knew who we were and where the children are.
When my boys are 18 they will be able to request their file to be opened (if the birth family agrees). I'm perfectly fine with that, and will 100% back them up with whatever decision they will make.
Until then I hope that I will be a good enough mother that the adoption issue will not be a bigger trauma than it needs to be. I hope that statement makes sense, I can't seem to find a different wording.
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