Hi, I wanted to reply to your post even though I don't think our situations are similar. I haven't found a good way to address the lies my son's bdad has told him about me. I suppose it's a case of 'who do you believe?' and if we're on the losing side, we can be bitter about it or take the high road and accept that we know the truth and then live our lives accordingly without bitterness.
I haven't found any way to change a person's mind if they truly want to believe someone else's story. I hope your daughter will eventually want to know both sides of her story.
Maybe someone who has been in your situation can post to help you with this. I want you to know that you're not alone.
