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[quote=Forever_family] I also don't want to rob a childless couple the joy of parenthood and almost feel selfish going through them, does that make sense? I just know that our baby is supposed to come to our home. It is hard not being able to have more chidlren. Adoption was something we had discussed but not something we felt we would do because we already had our 2 dd's. Life seemed very full and we felt blessed. The only way to explain it is that we know this baby is supposed to come to our home and he/she is our child by spirit. Trying to find him or her. [quote]
I just wanted to say, please don't beat yourself up or feel guilt over wanting to find YOUR child. I truly believe that your child is out there waiting for you, and that God will send him or her to you. If that child comes to you and not to someone else, it was because their child is elsewhere, that this one is your child from God.
Good luck!
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QUOTE: "Just like a woman who gives birth forgets the pain due to the overwhelming joy when she holds the baby, an adoptive mom also experiences that same joy when she holds her child for the first time." - Kat-L, forum member
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