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[quote=numbr1dbcksfan]Yeah. Um... calling a life style bad (like this particular one... not an illegal one or something) .... which is just one of a single woman.... well doesnt judge not lest ye be judged? fit that? There is nothing wrong with being single and unmarried. There is nothing 'bad' about it.... it is called being an adult... which a teen is not. [quote]
I don't think a woman(or ANYONE for that matter) who is having premarital sex is "bad" but I DO think she is making "bad" choices with her lifestyle.
Actually I don't think there is some big difference between having sex as a teenager and having sex as an adult(outside of marriage) Wrong is wrong is wrong.
My Christian beliefs don't change depending on age. I believe,and hope my children learn, that sex outside marriage is wrong...and sex is best saved for marriage. That doesn't change with age...Premarital sex is wrong if you are 16, 26 or 86(IMHO, I know there are many who disagree).
I also hope my children learn that being "WRONG" doesn't make you BAD...and something that is "wrong" can be made "right"(sometimes)
**ETA** NO, I'm not say that non-Christians don't have morals. I know many people who are not Christian who have very high morals.
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Shana
Momma to 3 Fur Babies & 1 Feathered Teen
Attempting to Foster-Adopt while sharing a household with younger sister who also wants to Foster-Adopt!
1/21/09 First Foster/Adopt Info Meeting
"Well..we would have to treat you like an 'alternative' couple...But you're not...I'll have to check with my boss"
Last edited by DreamingAzure : 05-23-2006 at 12:04 PM.
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