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Well... I think it is more of an issue that the birthparents are adults and she isnt. They have the freedom to live the lifestyle and make the choices that they would like... there is nothing wrong with being an adult and making adult decisions. BUT the teen is NOT an adult and while living under your roof needs to follow your rules and your moral code. She isnt free to sort out her own beliefs on right or wrong until she is on her own....
Bottom line... there is nothing wrong with adults having adult behavior.
But while under your roof...she has conduct herself according to your code or pay your consequences. It is what it is to be a teen....
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