[waitinginnj]

Pinkie - great point - before anyone deals with the decision about naming, it is important to find out what your child is actually called. I had some thoughts that I shouldn't change my daughter's name but she had no knowledge of it. She was always called my a nickname that I felt wouldn't work in the US on any level. So I ultimately made the decision to change her name guilt free. She would have been experiencing a change either way.