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Well that isnt what it said... it said that they first try to have them adopted within the family.. if that cant happen they are placed with a family to raise the child.. but do not lie to the child about his or her identity or shirk them their birthright....
In a collectivist culture your concern is not really something that materializes very much... people are concerned about and take care of the whole community..
It isnt like it is here where it is an individual -- everyone fend for yourself-- community.
So you have to look at it through their enculturation... family and community first... not the individual...
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