So, a child grows up in a family, always to be reminded that they do not belong, that they are not a part of the family. And that the "adoptive" family is just doing them a really, really big favour. sounds cruel to me. Where is the compassion for the child? where does the child belong. "Sorry kid, Im not gonna raise you, someone else will, butthey arenot your family, your family is abandoning you" Where is the best interest of the child? sounds like best interest for the bparents. Now I know why some groups do not adopt, it is not in their hearts.Nothing balanced & civilized to me.
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