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Originally Posted by merrill1277
NEVER assume the birth mom just "can't be bothered" or had a "change of heart" towards her child. This is a very uneducated assumption, perhaps a wish?
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No, I will say it AGAIN, I do not wish that bmom can't be bothered or I would have not been sending pictures and updates, birthday gifts, etc all along. We recently bought a new home and moved and it would have been the perfect opportunity to stop contact with her then, as she lives hours away now (she moved away from our area months ago) however I sent her mom letters with our new address and made it very clear that I would love to be in contact whenever bmom is ready. So this is a very uneducated assumption that because I get the impression based on her complete 360 turnaround in actions that I "wish" she would just not want to be bothered, when in fact it's the complete opposite.
Geesh.
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