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Originally Posted by Fran27
Thanks for the feedback everyone  I think the problem is that nobody gets it. We told them it can technically happen anytime, and then they say we're dreaming and it will take months... Knowing that they are probably right in the end, I just feel it's a losing battle. At least we'll be able to save money until D-day now that we got most of the stuff. |
You are right... they don't get it. If you haven't experienced the lack of control that comes from these types of waiting situations, you can't understand. FWIW, we were glad we did the work of preparing early... our DD came to us very quickly when it finally happened. You do what you need to do. When all is said and done, what others think won't matter much because you know you did what you felt was best for the child who will be placed with you...
I say ENJOY shopping and keep them wondering... this is your time to hope and dream that it will be soon and with each day, it is getting closer!
Best of luck!