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I had the complete opposite experience, and I am so sorry you are feeling this way. When we were waiting and began to shop around and asking questions, I had no problem saying we were adopting. This usually brought the barrage of questions, but it was ok. Our family was very supportive of us buying stuff for "just in case" and so even helped out! We had the baby's suitcase packed and ready for a long while before we had to travel in the event we got an emergency placement. Once we were matched, I did rewash and repack everything (it's my OCD..hehehe) but it was nice being prepared and feeling like I was in a bit of control.
My advice is do what is right for you. Enjoy these times before your baby comes. Be proud...you are going to be a Momma soon and you have every right to hold your head high in the baby aisle and shop til you drop!!!
{{{hugs}}}
--Renee
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