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Of course everyone is different, so I can't answer for her. But here is how I felt.
Is she even curious about her origins?
YES! I was so curious even though I never really expressed it. I thought about my origins a lot.
What are the chances she wants to meet her birth family?
I always knew I wanted to meet mine. The question in my mind was always 'when,' not 'if.'
At 18, is she even old enough to deal with the emotional aspect of a reunion?
I'm not even 18 and I feel that I am handling things just fine. My adoptive parents aren't doing as well and they are in their 50s. So is age even an indicator?
Is there ever a “right time” to make contact?
I doubt that the rightness in time will change much, if at all.
How do most adoptive parents feel about reunions?
Mine have a lot of insecurities. That is the hardest part.
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