Adee,
I am a birthmom that chose semi-open adoption. one reason cuz it would be too painful to see my birthdaughter all the time and also it would be too painful to not see or get pictures at all! Birthparents choose families that they think would be right for them. if the birth parents want a closed adoption they will pick a family that also wants a closed adoption. if the birthparents want an open adoption they will pick a family that want an open adoption and go from there.
thats what i konw and are my thoughts
