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Hi Faith;
Ya know, we have had the 4 boys together and they are wonderful to each other. Play very very well...and this is for three days straight. And in fact, I was shocked. I think that the boys who have been with us---who keep in mind behaved very similar to the current boys when we got them--my husband says--have been a support for them. I hear them talking and they talk about foster care and how they get mad and it is actually good to hear them vent with each other. There is healing.
I think that I need to clear up that they are angry but they are not hostile or abusive. If anything they are negative self talk to themselves. To others they are very loving...and confused and want desperately for that forever family. It just hurts how bad they want it.
We are going to continue to monitor closely--but signs so far---are good. Thank you Faith for your words of support.
CW told me today that they are going to tell the boys this weekend that we have agreed to go forward and be their forever family. We are happy. Lynn
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