[Faith65]

Smousekc,

congates on your first two boys. I would agree that they are with you to stay. But, DCF has to cross all thier t's and dot all their I's. I would say to wait out the ride. It may take time but...I believe in the end you and your husband to be blessed.

Now the older two that you have just started visited. WOW you will have your hands full. They will need contast care, behavior management and love. I would be very concerned of the saftey of your younger two with the older two so angry and the sexually abuse. I'm not saying that you can't take them on and help them grow and heal but you have a very long up hill road ahead of you. I would not make any permament commintment to them or the state at this point.

I wish you much strength and joy along your journey. Keep us posted and please join in the other sites here on attachments they may help shed some light for you.