[Oliver1]

Chielu -

Please don't EVER assume you speak for me as an adoptee. Your sarcastic and somewhat bitter voice is not in harmony with mine - AT ALL. And it never will be. I can't believe you have the balls to presume you could ever know how I feel - in the past, present or future. The utter arrogance of your words makes me want vomit.

I understand that not everyone feels like me. And definitely, not everyone feels like you. While I appreciate your viewpoint and your opinions, whatever validity they might possess shrinks away when you assume the "I speak for all" tone with your blanket statements that strike of ignorance - at least as it pertains to my personal situation.

To be frank, I find it completely freakin' annoying and intrusive.

To everyone else, I apologize that this thread got off topic, but I cannot sit here and read what I supposedly feel as an adoptee by some random, annonymous person who doesn't have a clue about me or my family. It's creepy.