Hmmm...I can add another "name" to my growing list...
mommy, wife, daughter, friend, ADOPTER...doesn't that word give you the warm fuzzies?
FYI, I know several grown adoptees who have chosen not to find "their people"...I'm not just talking about children here. And one last thing...this ADOPTER doesn't have "fears" or "insecurities"...I SAVED my children from the "system" and from a horrible life of abuse and neglect. Should I have left them there just to be with "their people"? And, when the time comes, this ADOPTER will help HER children find their birth families if that is what they choose to do (and yes, they are MY children...their birth certificate says so!)
To the original poster, I send you many
and prayers.