[DebCsMom]

I am so very sorry for your pain. When we lose a child, even in this manner, it hurts as though the child has died. We know the child was not yet ours, but we had hopes & dreams for that child. Some will say it wasn't our child to grieve. Being with the child if only for a couple of days, is the build up to all the heartache & pain & sadness we went through to get that far. For that to be ripped away from us is hard to accept. Even if somewhere way down deep, we had a "feeling" it wouldn't happen. You will go through the grieving process. It's normal. It's hurt like nothing else ever has. Physically as well as emotionally.

You will heal, in time. It seems like all hope is forever gone. It isn't. At this time it is impossible to even imagine going through the whole process of waiting again. In time, you will be ready. You will know when.

This has happened to alot of us. Yet no one can say they know how you feel. Your feeling & pain are your own. But we are here for you because we have been there. We have heard everyone tell us to not give up, to keep faith & to move on. We feel like they have no idea what they are saying & how can they say that! But it is all true!

We are here for you!! Take your time to grieve.

Hugs & Prayers to you!

Deb