Scared22,
Having an abortion just because this man wants you to would be the worst possible reason for having one. You have three options and make sure you choose the right one for you...nobody else. The first is abortion which which I get the impression you really don't want to do so don't. The second is to parent and reading between the lines you do want. The third is adoption.
From what you have posted you really do want to parent but your concern is your relationship with this man. Your baby is far more important than this man so if I was in your position and wanted to parent I would do so. This man would then have the choice of supporting you and your child or keeping away and not pressurize you.
If however you do decide adoption is the better plan make sure you research and get good, unbiased support. At the end of the day you and your unborn child are far more important than this man so whilst he has a right to to his opinions and feelings he shouldn't be allowed to force you to do something you don't want to do. Most importantly take care of yourself, keep asking questions and asking for support from here as we will give it to you.
Pip
