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If there were no baby in the picture right now, would you stay with this man? Now, how do you really feel about this baby? And is having one worth giving up the other for? I think you need to examine your feelings about each before you can decide.
Now, let me just say that if YOU do not want an abortion, please don't let him force you into it. IMO, you will regret it later on. Not just because you aborted a baby that you may have been able to parent, but also because you let someone force you into doing something against your will.
If you chose not to abort, then if I am reading your post correctly, you basically have two choices left: parent the baby you are carrying and most likely give up a relationship with a married man, or think about an adoption plan for your baby so that you can possibly stay with this man, who may still leave you anyway because there is still a child of his out in the world that he doesn't want his wife to find out about.
Ultmately, you need to decide what is best for the baby first and foremost, and what is best for you.
Best wishes
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Cheryl
First time Mom through open adoption
Joined agency June 2005
Matched April 21, 2006
Handsome Little Man born June 12, 2006
Placed lovingly in our arms June 15, 2006
Finalized April 17, 2007
No one can make you feel inferior without your permission. ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
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