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I'm returning both diaper bags to T next week. I've decided, per my husband's suggestion, it would simply be less of a headache to bring my own. This avoids any further miscommunications regarding T's "property" issues, and I'll feel less resentful when she plays these head games with the caseworker and I.

Here's a copy of the note I'll be sending along,

Dear Ms. ___________

I'm returning the diaper bags to you with their contents. The blanket, burp cloth, pacifier, small toys, and wet wipes container are in the Winnie the Pooh bag. For your convenience, I've laundered the blanket and burp cloth, as well as refilled the container with baby wipes.
The black bag is being returned to you with reasonable replacements of the items you requested, per the list you presented Ms. _____________ (social worker). Additionally, I've purchased any products I recall may have been in the bag originally.
I've placed a small bottle of olive oil conditioner in the diaper bag, too. Petroleum-based hair products can clog hair follicles, pores, and attract dust. The hair greases and lotions seem to weigh down S's hair, so I've avoided using these. A stylist I spoke with recommended more natural products which are safe for her skin.
I'm replacing the baby powerder. But, I have been avoiding using these with S, also. Talc can be ingested, causing aspiration and lung damage. Also, baby powder has been linked to certain cancers of the female reproductive organs. I have avoided these products with my children, and also my foster children. I'm doing my best to provide S with a healthy, safe environment.
To avoid any furhter miscommunications, I've decided it's prudent for me to use those items I have. If there are any additional things you prefer returned to you, please provide Ms. _____________ (caseworker) with a list. I will return these at your earliest convenience.

Most Sincerely,

DSS Foster Parent


Any thoughts?