I have so been right there. I had that with one of my bio parents to. What a hoot
. Just give that mom everything she has ever given you. And I mean everything you can think of. Clothes, shoes, toys the works. That way you don't have anything she could want. and give it to the caseworker to give to her. the caseworker is suposed to be a buffer between you make her do it. Inform the worker you are capable of caring for the child without the bmom's help and don't require anything from her any more. good luck.