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I know with our situations, we are actually not allowed to bring a diaper bag to the visits. BMom and dad have to provide everything for the visit on their own, and they need to bring their own stuff. And you are correct, this is a classic case of her trying to have control of something, even something so small as a diaper bag. You might want to talk to the case worker about this. I'd tell her that you are done playing that game and that you'd rather focus your care and attention on the foster child rather than worry every week about a diaper bag.