Wow,
You remind me of myself. Our match toook longer than I expected and the waiting is hard. The only advice I can give is spend time alone and with DH. As your wait becomes longer you realize that you cannot think about your potential match all the time. Go see a movie, go to a spa, go on a weekend trip. That was our sure fire way to get matched. We were on a snowbilling trip and had no phone service. On Monday we had several messages from our agency saying a bmom wanted to meet us. That is how life goes.
As for the homestudy they just want to know the home is safe and adequate size. Make sure to have smoke detectors and fire extinguishers.
Take a deep breath, you will be fine
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