I'm so sorry you have to jump through hoops. The caseworker has put you in a hard position. I feel as the others do that if he is agreeing to go to Keir, start there. My FD started with someone she trusted, and agreed to switch at the recommendation of the therapist. The truth is she didn't like any therapist on any given day; her opinions changed.
I don't quite understand why the caseworker feels this is a bad match since the extreme behavior disorder is his area of expertice. At any rate, your instincts sound very good and you are very consciencious so whatever you decide to do will be a good choice.
The therapist I switched my fd to (this is the third one she's seen, not counting the therapy group she attended post psychiatric hospital stay) specializes in attachment issues. I am so fortunate that she offered to see us free of charge when the insurance wouldn't cover her fees. She is a gem.
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