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Old 04-22-2006, 09:08 PM
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Katlyn,
As I reread the suggestions and replies to your question, I think I would probably call him and sound him out (does he still deny her, etc.). I would be honest and say that I've found her and will give her his info when she asks for it. I would also be open with her about his previous denial. (Bdad did initially question paternity originally in my case, until he discovered I wasn't expecting anything from him! If he saw him today, he'd have no questions. Bson sounds just like him and has many of the same gestures - it's amazing!)

By the way, are you making your plans to contact her? Just having the info is an incredible feeling isn't it?
Kathy
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