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Our pbmom has asked for a completely closed adoption after she delivers in May. She does not want to meet until we are all at the hospital next month. (we've only emailed at this point) She's married and also has 6 kids at home. Anyway, I'm struggling with what to give to her. Do I send things for her kids also? Some of them are pre-teens and are struggling with the adoption. Any ideas?
This is so different from our last domestic adoption. We met our bmom several times prior to our daughters birth and gave her several items.... a jewelry box and large photo album with some pics of us together during pregnancy and room for all the pics that we would send to her after the birth.
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