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We did. We gave her a journal at the time the match was official, also something small for her 2 dds. We bought her roses at the time of Bug's birth. We wanted her to feel like the mother she was even if no one else, including her own family, recognized it. We also bought her family meals that day and DH took her home.

A month after Bug's birth, after the revoc period we visited them, took a meal and small gifts. And K's birthday was before finalization... I know we sent her something for that.