[hbrown24]

Thank you so much everyone for the replies. I really like something along the line of, " 'They' don't cost anything, it's the lawyers, foster care, and agency fees that add up."

No matter how much I rehearse an answer in my head though I always seem to be caught somewhat off guard. I really don't like the idea of giving a dollar amount though. Again, I don't like the reaction of, "Oh my gosh, that's so expensive!" Hopefully I will get better as time goes on.