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I thnk everyone here has already made valid points and I would agree - since there is statistical evidence out there to prove it - that quite a lot of bomoms do "block out" (either consciously or unconsciously) details like dates, times, places etc which have to do with the birth and adoption of their child.
Whilst I do remember the date, time and place of my baby's birth - & just about everything else about the circumstances leading to the adoption - I cannot for the life of me recall actually signing the final consent form. Not sure if I blocked it out or didn't realise what I was signing and its significance or even if someone has faked my signature!
It happens. It's sad but, as others have said, it's not important in the scheme of things.
Yes, do tell your bmom what's on the obc and help her to help you feel happier by sharing your next "birthday" with you.
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