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[quote=StorkWatcher]
My very personal opinion is that I'm not in favor of this. If I had been able to grow and give birth to my child, I would not ask friends to donate money for my hospital bills or so I could buy diapers. [quote]
Yes but, when you give birth, it's relatively "free" so to speak. In other words, when most people wanna have a biological child, they just do, and pay whatever deductible they have with insurance. Non-adoptive parents don't have to pay for home studies and agy fees and bmom expenses etc.
So IMO, I don't think *I* could do a fundraiser (altho we have borrowed $$ from family, but that's b/c we have a legal fight we weren't expecting), but I can certainly see how AP's want to and if invited, I would go and would donate.
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S. J. born April 05
FINALIZED lucky Friday 10-13-06 
"And all the roads we have to walk are winding
And all the lights that light the way are blinding
There are many things that I
Would like to say to you but I don't know how...
Cause maybe
You're gonna be the one that saves me
And after all
You're my wonder wall"
Last edited by sadiegirl : 04-19-2006 at 06:47 AM.
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