[MNStarr]

I think it varies, for me personally someone asking you outright how much anything costs, adoption or not, is rude. I usually say well all babies are expensive or she didn't cost anything the process did, even then I had a woman tell me I basically bought my daughter and how it is similar to a blackmarket. ALso have been asked if it costs more if they are lighter. There have been a few people who have come up to us to admire or see her and say that they are looking into adoption and then if they are curious I don't mind sharing the process and fees involved. But usually whenever we get asked that is not the case.


I will admit that one lady at our church who is extremely rude and noisy in fron of everyone the first Sunay we were there, she yelled loudly, Oh so how much did THAT cost? Everyone kinda froze and I said, well why do you ask? She said she just wanted to know, so I asked her how much her new car and house cost...that kinda made her rethink the question...But I felt bad afterwards..