...I told SOME family and some close friends. I didn't know what to say to those I don't want to share.
But I LOVE Dona's reply. Ask then "why are you conisdering adopting ?" I will definetly use this. Thanks !!
There is a really gossipy lady in her late 50's at work. I think she is divorced and has 2 grown children. I can't wait to say that to her !!! I hope her gang of gossipers are with her !!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL
As far as the IVF route. We did that 2x. Waited and waited. Negative on the first. And no heartbeat on the second. Blighted ovum. The heartbreak was terrible. From getting a positive result to having a loss.
That's when adoption started. We know we will have our family....and I stress OUR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hugs.
-Ran
PS - One family member just paid cash for a Lexus SUV. Ouch. My husband and I call our son our little Lexus - the AWCJ model (his initials) out of Guatemala. LOL !!