I just don't know what to say. We are just in the early stages of the paperchase and before we even applied to an agency, I thought it would be a year for a referal after we were DTC.
My Heart truly goes out to you parents who were "in" when the waits were 6 months. This has to be excruciating.
I have no words for you, but just know that you and your children are in my prayers daily. My prayer is that our families will be quickly united and that we are all granted the grace to deal with the wait.
Hugs,