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I am sure that the trauma of relinquishing a precious gift for someone else to love and nurture could most definitely cause someone to block out that time in their life. As for me, I know this post is an old one, but I remember the exact time and date my daughter was born. I also remember the first time I held her in my arms and the last time I held her in my arms. I dealt with my pain and anguish by remembering her birthday every year and sending up a prayer that wherever she was it was a wonderful day for her. Please don't be too hard on your bmom, I'm sure that it is just part of her way of healing. Just build a relationship based on who you both are today, and what you can be to each other in the future.
Best wishes to you!
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